Yesterday was Valentine’s Day. A day for
love. A day of remembrance St. Valentine for his message of love amongst each
other in the human race. But I didn’t wrote anything yesterday. Actually I’m
still divided between in favouring this ritual and in opposition of this. If
I’m sounding confused then it’s not your fault. Actually both kinds of things
are going on in my mind.
I’m in favour of this because spread of
love is a good thing. Being in love isn’t a bad thing. But it shouldn’t be
confined to one day in a year. It should be done and it should be expressed
daily to your some one special. Love isn’t depended on the size of the gift
which you give to your loved one. It’s depended on the intensity which is in
your heart. Actually, love can’t be defined and it can’t be measured. It’s a
feeling above the materialistic things. Rather I would call it a divine
feeling. When you are in love with some one, then the happiness and a genuine sweet
smile on the face of your loved one is more than the entire treasure of the
world. The thing which is there when you see your loved one happy can’t be
described in words. It’s a feeling which is felt by heart and soul. This is the
thing which money can’t buy. So instead of celebrating love one day, we should
celebrate the love everyday of our live. It’s a thing which goes on and on and
increases with every passing day.
Now come to the part when I’m against the
so called hype about the Valentine’s Day. Every year, some political and social
parties and groups ransack the parks and restaurants where lovers meet each
other and they attack the lovers. Their protest shouldn’t be confined to the
westernisation of love, as they propagate, but it should be against the atrocities
on women like gang rape, rape, molestation, dowry killing, sexual abuse,
domestic violence and all the crimes which are being committed everywhere in
the country everyday. They should target to eliminate these crimes if they
really want to save the Indian society being getting worse. I would say that
they should start the campaign to stop killing of unborn female kids when they
are in the womb of their mother. In Indian culture and in Hindu philosophy,
girls are treated as goddess. So, they should focus their attention and effort
in saving girl children and in protecting their rights. They shouldn’t target
lovers in parks and restaurants for the cheap publicity in the media.